Arya is a couples’ wellness platform backed by science and designed to entertain. Every step in your Arya experience is created by our team of relationship experts to ignite passion, deepen intimacy with your partner, and grow your erotic skills. Since Arya is specially designed for couples, it is important to share Arya with your partner and encourage them to join you in the onboarding process. The answers you and your partner provide to the onboarding questions give us the information necessary to personalize your Scenes and curate your perfect Arya experience. To truly maximize the effectiveness of Arya serving both you and your partner’s needs, it’s best to have you both engaged.

• “We’ve never done anything like Arya before. It put a spark in our marriage and relationship and really opened us up to new things. We’re finding out who our true selves are physically and what we really like. It’s been awesome.” T, 42*

• "It was like having an accountability buddy, reminding you to set some time aside for yourselves.“ J, 37*

• "We couldn't wait for our next Scene! ...I liked the mystery!“ M, 28*

• “It’s an experience that deepens connection and opens opportunities in the bedroom that you might really enjoy — it’s fun knowing that there’s still so many new things that we haven’t tried.” J, 31*

• “Watching someone that I have so much love and respect for, try something outside of her comfort zone was such a turn on."  A, 32*

• “We love the Arya concierge! You just tell her “this is what I want” and then she makes it happen. It’s just so easy.” S, 35*

After a fun date-night, dinner or intimate time, try dropping one of these:

1. I saw an ad for a new app that can help spice up our sex life and the reviews are really good. It got me pretty excited thinking about doing this together. Want to give it a try with me?

2. I have a sexy idea I want to try with you! I found this app that provides everything we need to try new things in the bedroom together. Are you game?

3. Imagine getting drinks at the bar and then we both receive a text from our Arya concierge planning our Scene for that night… it’s like having a secret in a room full of people, a little bit of foreplay/teasing and then go home and see what happens.*

While making dinner or watching your fave tv show together:

1. I want to try something new this weekend! I found this app that plans sexy activities for us and sends us a box filled with everything we need to make it happen. Will you try it with me?

2. You know what would be hot? Trying something new in the bedroom! Can I show you this app I found called Arya? They take care of everything so we can focus on each other.

If your partner expresses a concern as to why you would want to try something new in the bedroom, it can help to explain that Arya is something you explore together. It’s not about your relationship being in trouble or your partner having “a problem.” It’s about trying something new together. Arya isn’t a “relationship fixer” or “like therapy.” We are a new kind of service that helps ignite passion and deepen the connection between partners through curated experiences. We give couples new techniques and toys with expert guidance and spicy content to keep you both entertained and excited to play!

It’s OK to not have the same opinions, emotions, or desires as your partner. In fact, accepting differences in personalities is fundamental to being in a healthy relationship. If you find that frequently it feels like your desires are at odds with your partner’s, Arya is perfect for you both. Arya helps couples with different “relationship wiring” connect. Rather than asking couples to focus on one person’s desires over the other, we help couples deepen their intimate connection and set their passion aflame. Your onboarding questionnaire, combined with the feedback you give to your Arya concierge throughout your Scenes, helps ensure that your Arya experience is curated for each of your individual needs and designed to help bring out the best experience together. Give it a try to see how it can work for you both.

One of Arya’s most unique features is that we use your onboarding questionnaire and feedback to curate your experience, especially for you and your partner. From giving you insight into your distinct erotic personas to shaping your journey to accommodate your personal goals and experience levels, Arya has the best results when we can create a unique journey just for you and your partner.

Plus, the guidance and box items are better when they are personalized to both partners’ feedback.

If you and your partner struggle, or just avoid, conversations about changing things up in the bedroom (or your relationship as a whole), the thought of bringing up Arya may cause a bit of anxiety. That’s totally normal! Take a breath, look at the suggestions below, and find the option that works best for you and your partner. Remember, things won’t change until you take the first step to make it happen.

A few conversation starters that can help get the ball rolling:

1. Couples who’ve never done anything like this before are now saying it put a spark in their relationship. Arya has really opened them up to new things. Let’s check it out.

2. The Arya app takes care of everything for us. We even get our own personal concierge. We each tell our Arya concierge, “this is what I want” and she makes it happen!

3. Listen, you answer a couple of questions, and Arya curates Scenes for us to try and sends us a box of toys and sexy goodies to surprise us. It’s a win-win!

4. Honey, this Arya app will send us sexy ideas for new ways to play together and they take care of everything. It’s super easy and guaranteed to be fun. There’s no harm in trying something new, right?

Though it’s always better to have both partners communicate their needs and personal preferences beforehand, sometimes your partner just needs to experience an Arya Scene for themselves before getting hooked. In this rare case, go ahead and join Arya to begin your journey toward your first Scene. You’ll have access to our guides, expert videos, immersive erotica, and much more to ensure you feel confident before leading the Scene. Once your Arya Box has arrived, you will be ready to guide your partner through a night of pleasure and connection to show them the power of Arya. Then, it will be easier to get your partner on board to try the full Arya experience with your next Scene.