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Impact play and your main event

You can titillate your senses with impact play as your intense foreplay, OR combine with some seriously spicy positions for the ultimate combination of pain and pleasure. These are easy sex positions to try while experimenting with spanking, whipping, and flogging.

Cowgirl (Partner straddling on top face to face)

This is the perfect position for EITHER partner to use a flogger on the other person’s chest. If you’re the partner being ridden, reach your arm around your partner’s back and gently flog their shoulder blades or bottom. And if you’re the partner doing the riding, use the flogger along their chest and arms. BE CAREFUL NOT TO STRIKE THEIR FACE.

Reverse Cowgirl (Partner straddling on top facing away)

Ohhh this one can get very naughty! If you’re the partner being ridden, use any impact toy on your partner’s booty to increase the sensations. Direct your partner to play with themselves or use a vibrating toy against their sensitive areas. And if you’re the partner doing the riding, use a flogger to gently slap their feet or inner thighs. For a more intense thud, use a paddle on their thighs.

Doggy Style (One Partner on hands and knees while the other partner thrusts from behind)

This one is THE best for the partner who is behind to do the impact play. Use a flogger on their back, a paddle on their booty, or a combination of hand spanking and a flogger. Again, direct your partner to tease themselves with their fingers… or reach in between their legs to caress you as you slide in and out of them.

Missionary

This classic can be spiced up with some light spanking. If you’re the partner lying on your back, you can use your hand to slap your partner’s booty or add an extra level of intensity by striking their shoulders or chest. If you’re the partner on top, use the flogger lightly on your partner’s chest or upper arms – avoiding the face and neck.

Oral Pleasure

YES! You can even add in impact play during your oral sessions. Generally, the person performing the oral sensations will be receiving the impact play. But you can mix it up – if you want to pleasure your partner orally AND add impact play to their experience, alternate between going down on them and striking them with an impact toy.

Arya Tip: This creates an erotic scene of frustrating satisfaction – so be aware of your partner’s response.

Over the knee

Okay, okay, so this isn’t technically a sex position – but it’s an incredibly kinky experience. This is more of a powerplay position, perfect for barehand spanking. Your partner lays over your knees so you can TOTAL access to their butt and thighs. Make sure you’re supporting your partner in a comfortable position. Alternate between soft caressing and intense spanking