Jumping into a brand new way of exploring pleasure can seem a little bit scary, but taking the time to prepare and talk things through is an important place to start.

Remember, talking about intimacy can be really sexy, especially when it’s a promise of what’s to come. Sharing your excitement can be as easy as stating, “I can’t wait until you’re dripping massage oil on my back...” or “Just the thought of running the Ice Wands across your bare skin is turning me on…”

Find a quiet, private place for you to lay out your Scene and set out your Arya Box products together. Put on your favorite sensual music or turn on your Arya-curated playlist to help set the mood. Dim the lights, take a breath, and begin.

Don’t forget that this is the perfect opportunity to spend uninterrupted time with your partner. In this space, all that matters is your shared pleasure.

Get in the Mood

Music is Always a Good Idea

We tell couples to play music slightly louder than normal when they decide to experiment with blindfold play, to cover the sounds of the non-blindfolded partner moving around; picking things up, opening wrappers, etc. This is an ideal time for your Arya custom playlist.