Amp Up

Take Control. Step into your Dominant side by showing your partner that you want to take the lead. You can command your partner to wash you and enjoy the feeling of having your body worshiped, or you can demand that your partner attempt to stand still while you give them the most erotic washdown of their lives.

Shave Your Partner. Capitalizing on equal parts trust and intimacy, shaving your partner can be a uniquely erotic experience. With a steady hand and sufficient shaving gel, discuss with your partner which areas of their body you can explore. We suggest faces, chest, legs, and even genitals if you are very careful.

Partnered Masturbation. Watching each other masturbate can be a fantastic way to build intimacy and spice things up. Increase the sexual tension by standing close enough to each other inside the shower to almost touch, but not quite. Hold your partner's gaze and touch yourself just the way you like. The steamy shower will surely get even steamier. Also, partnered masturbation is the best way to show your partner what you enjoy during sex. If you're too shy to communicate your needs or are unsure how to talk about sex, then use shower play to tell your partner what gets you off without ever having to use your words.

Try A Little Temperature Play. This fun and refreshing technique can elevate your senses and bring a little unpredictability to your shower. This technique is meant to alternate the feeling of hot and cold on the skin. Try quickly turning up the cold water for a few seconds, then attempt to warm your bodies back up together. This is NOT a cold shower. We are only suggesting a few secs of cold to get your adrenaline running without dampening your libido from a full icy shower. Arya Tip: This technique is also good for testosterone production and to get the blood pumping.

Switching Up The Positions. Though we hope you are focusing on sensation and play while in the shower, we know sometimes the urge to take it further is unavoidable. Let us give you a few tips on how to do it safely.

If you decide to have sex in the shower, you will need silicone-based lube. Showers can be shockingly drying on our most intimate parts. Next, you need a safe position. We think the most comfortable position for shower sex is to have the female partner stand against the wall and wrap one leg around the male partner's waist as he stands in front of her. This position should minimize slipping and allow each partner to access the shower wall for support. In this position, you can both engage in penetrative sex and have access to one another's body for additional stimulation.

If the height difference is too significant or balancing on one leg creates a challenge, try a position where the female partner stands, bent over and facing the wall, with her hands resting on the wall for support, as the male partner enters her from behind.