The Kissing Guide
It’s kissing time!
Why does kissing your partner feel SO amazing?
Kissing isn’t just a sensual act of love– there’s science behind it too!
When you kiss, your body releases a variety of hormones and neurotransmitters – these affect your emotions and pleasure. Adrenaline zips through your body as your heart rate increases AND oxytocin boosts your feelings of intimacy, trust, and affection. Your happy hormones (dopamine and serotonin) affect your mood and help your brain process all these INCREDIBLE feelings. This is the euphoric sensation you’ll have during your steamy makeout session – making you feel UHH-MAZING.
You may be thinking, okay Arya, I know how to kiss. AND we agree! This isn’t about what you know… this is about taking the time to relish in the tantalizing, orgasmic, and oh-so-sexy pleasure of sensually kissing your partner– all. over. their. body.
What’s your kissing language?
Exploring each other’s kissing languages can be incredibly pleasurable AND hot.
Begin with a slow seduction. Start with soft kisses, letting your lips graze your partner’s for a few seconds before pulling away. Gradually increase the intensity and pressure with deeper kisses. Touch their face… run your fingers through their hair… slide your hands down their arms.
You can explore the intimacy of closed-mouth kisses along the lips and down the neck. Or feel free to get WET and WILD with open-mouth kissing. Use your tongue to explore each other’s mouths and tease out different tongue movements before coming together for your erotic makeout.
If you notice your partner has a slightly different kissing language than you– that’s okay! Use the mirroring technique to help you learn their style. You can ask your partner to lead and show you how they’d liked to be kissed… then mirror the same techniques back to them. Or vice versa! Before you know it– you’ll be speaking the SAME kissing language and having an orgasmic time. Arya Tip: Wanna explore tantalizing and playful techniques? Check out this Arya Guide on Kama Sutra Kissing.
This is your time to figure out what you’re interested in – what would be exciting and pleasurable for you? And what would add sizzle to your relationship?
